There are many people who aren't happy with how they look. Not for someone else, but for themselves, they want to look better. It's not easy to accept themselves for some people. They believe the 'love yourself, you're perfect how you look' mindset but it's hard to truly embrace that idea...
Especially at times like this... where all you see is fake, edited pictures of fake people on social media, it's easy to feel bad about oneself when they subconsciously compare themselves to that unrealistic beauty standard. One of the reasons I don't use social media :")
Anyways, I think some people just need more time and mental effort to start to be happy with themselves.
@Hyouryuu-Na I don't believe in the myth of "you should love yourself" - it's quite impossible to "love yourself" without external references, it's more "you don't need to care how does you look so much, the way you move, speak and react (so, how do you think) define your image more".
'To love yourself' is just a way of saying be happy with who you are. Not just in terms of appearance, but everything like behaviour, personality and mindset. If someone can't be happy with themselves because they have a bad quality, they should change it. But most of the time it comes from self confidence issues which is something many people need to work on. We are better than we think we are.
Got fired from my job because they found someone more "Professional" and "Better" then me so I had more time to work on a tower defense prototype for a friend, I will upload tutorials on how to make it yourself once it's finished.
I'm on YouTube moderating for an America's Funniest Home Videos livestream. They love having me there and I know spam when I see it. Tonight I had to put 3 different people in time out due to them spamming random letters. Nobody else could chat with their messages in the way!
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