This topic has taken a strange turn. Hmm, I'll just say I don't really think it's so cut and dry as "they change, or they're born that way" though this is just from my personal experiences and I'm far from claiming to be an expert here. My own life experience has gone from fearing I might not be straight (having been born into a highly religious family but never really being interested in any girl I'd laid eyes upon) to experimenting (once) with a homosexual relationship and then deciding after experiencing much the same as the heterosexual relationships of the past that I 'just wasn't into it'. From there I lived my life believing I was asexual until love blindsided me four years later and I ended up a married, heterosexual male. Yes I believe I am heterosexual now, but then where did those doubts come from. I certainly never felt any pressure at all to 'not be heterosexual'.
Personally I can't say what people choose or don't choose, and I don't really care. I think there is a lot more going on in our brains than even we can comprehend that just comes with being human and being driven by intangible thoughts rather than pure instinct. Talking from growing up on a farm and always being around animals when it comes down to it most animals (I realize as with everything there are exceptions such as certain bird species that mate for life and what have you) tend to lean strongly towards bisexual, the instinct to breed may most often show itself with paired male/female couples but few are the animals in the prime of their lives that wouldn't go for a same sex (or hell, even inter-species) truss now and again when one wasn't available. Because humans aren't so widely influenced by pure instinct we are free to explore so many different variations of thought and opinion as to boggle the mind, and unfortunately somewhere along that line many people feel compelled to the assertion that their personal variation is correct, and all others somehow wrong. Free will isn't so simple as that, with the freedom to break away from impulse comes a whole pandora's box of questions to which I for one, simply believe that there might not actually be a 'factual' answer for.
Personally I can't say what people choose or don't choose, and I don't really care. I think there is a lot more going on in our brains than even we can comprehend that just comes with being human and being driven by intangible thoughts rather than pure instinct. Talking from growing up on a farm and always being around animals when it comes down to it most animals (I realize as with everything there are exceptions such as certain bird species that mate for life and what have you) tend to lean strongly towards bisexual, the instinct to breed may most often show itself with paired male/female couples but few are the animals in the prime of their lives that wouldn't go for a same sex (or hell, even inter-species) truss now and again when one wasn't available. Because humans aren't so widely influenced by pure instinct we are free to explore so many different variations of thought and opinion as to boggle the mind, and unfortunately somewhere along that line many people feel compelled to the assertion that their personal variation is correct, and all others somehow wrong. Free will isn't so simple as that, with the freedom to break away from impulse comes a whole pandora's box of questions to which I for one, simply believe that there might not actually be a 'factual' answer for.
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