How to seduce a girl?

[billtunew23]

Hi guys,


I am 21 right now and still alone. This is so... you know!


I think most of guys here  are not only good at making games but also perfect at making...other things.


Please give me some advices!!!!

 

[Caz]

Send her a picture of a dolphin. Don't ask why, just do it. Trust me.

 

[Dalph]

First of all you have to achieve 100% Self-Confidence, it helps really a lot in these cases, a lot of girls don't like insecure guys and will never give you a chance if you show insecurity.


Also dress well, shave, take good care of yourself (physical appeareance is not everything but pls don't look like a bum and expect girls to pay attention to you, that just won't work), also make her laugh a lot, girls love funny guys.


You also have to be both a good talker and listener at the same time, and try to advice her if she has problems.


Body language helps a lot too, walk\speak confidently, smile and have good posture, be calm and composed, and be positive too, don't be a drama queen (that'll totally turn her off) and most importantly show that you genuinely care even through small but significant gestures (opening the door for her, helping her to take off her coat, waiting for her before starting to eat, etc.).


And don't pressure her too much, a lot of girls like to be wanted but like to have some space too, keep a good balance between the two things.


And good luck!

 

[Caz]

But on the other hand, dolphin picture. 


Who will you trust?!

 

[Dalph]

 

[chalkdust]

^ I snorted.


Oh, and um... advice? Think about what you want in a girl, and then take an honest look at yourself. A great women deserves a great man, so if you're not there yet then focus on self-improvement and get there. Hit the gym. Hit the books. Land a decent job. Get a nice home. Dress and groom like an adult. Wherever you're coming up short, do whatever it takes. Basically, women are awesome and you've got to bring enough awesome of your own to the table for an equal partnership if you want one to seriously consider you.

 

[Strashiner]

Confidence.


Confidence and reassurance.


at your age a lot of girls are looking for men with confidence.


It may not seem like much, but eventually you'll end up playing the waiting game.


Once you got her interested. You try your best to keep her interested until it's time YOU break the news.


oh and


you have to look the part.


sorry, that's how it is.

 

[Susan]

I agree with both the above suggestions. Dolphins are cute , and having a guy like that is very attractive for me, especially when I come from a country where guys are more likely to slam the door in your face rather than open it for you, even if the girl is a significant other or a sibling. XD


That said, be mindful if the girl you're interested in is into feminist rights or stuff like that. Being that kind of gentleman will most likely turn her off than make her interested in you.

 

[Dalph]

Dolphins are cute

 

[esby]

it's easy; all you need to do is shine an apple up real good, wrap it with a picture of a dolphin and throw it at her in the street.

 

[Scythuz]

At first when I read the above bit of advice, I thought it was run of the mill usual internet forum stuff.  Then I noticed something strange...

Dolphins are cute , and having a guy like that is very attractive for me

Why does she say guy instead of dolphin?  Well, I think I have the answer.  Susan is into guys wearing dolphin suits!

Spoiler

http://imgur.com/a/CbrRy

Also why on earth is a question like op's being asked here?! xD  Is this RPG Maker, Waifu Maker or Dolphin Maker?

 

[Susan]

@Dalph™, that dolphin looks cute, and those kids look like they're having fun more than actually being scared to death. XD


@Scythuz, good gif there. You're mistaken about one thing, though - I'm into dolphins wearing guy suits~

 

[Dalph]

Susan is into waifu Dark Lords.

~


Back in topic, I forgot something very important and it's called independence, most girls don't like guys that rely on their parents so be sure to show some decents signs of being independent, it helps a lot.

 

[LaFlibuste]

I guess it really depends if you're just looking for one nights or more long-term relationship. I can't really help with the former, I've never really been that kind of guy. But for the latter, I'd say this: just be yourself. It sounds cheesy, but at the end of the day, it's what works best. If you just are yourself you'll automatically feel more confident end secure as you won't always be trying to act a part. Of course, self-confidence, independence, good appearance, good manners, dolphins, etc. will all help you. But don't try to be someone you're not. It may work short term, I guess, but sooner or later, if the relationship draws out, you will get tired of it, your nature will bleed out and the girl will wonder who she really is with. I won't work long.


Also, and it might be the most ironic piece of advice, I've personally had the most luck when I stopped looking and trying. Easier said than done, I know, but... Yeah. I'd suggest to just do your stuff, be yourself, be generally gentle and sociable, and without even really realizing it you'll encounter someone and things'll happen naturally.

 

[Musashi]

Just don't be desperate =B You're too young to worry about this. Go make new friends instead,you don't have to try to 'seduce' people, these things happens naturally   If you like someone, just call her out, there is no need to be someone you're not.

 

[lokirafael]

Just show her your mad programing skills, girls love programming skills.

 

[Kyuukon]

Just show her your mad programing skills, girls love programming skills.

Or your lvl 100 WoW characters. That never fails.

 

[The Stranger]

You've come to the right place. Oh boy! Do I have some advice for you. Well... N-no, I really don't. I've been in eight relationships (the longest being six years) and still have no bloody idea how they started. They just sort of happened. Many good and bad memories of those relationships, but no advice on how to pick up gals - or boys.

 

[kovak]

If all you want is a starting point i think everybody here said what needs to be done.
If you want something that goes beyond things thends to go to a mix of this, friendship and most important of all threat her as someone as equal as you.


It may sound obvious but most of guys that asks for tips on dating forgets about this, that women are humans.


People also tend to fall in love with people that may look like they have things that those people don't as a person, a strong will, good humor, being energic when doing any stuff...you better focus on those aspecs of you as well cuz those things must remain instead of being crushed by a negative response from another person.

 

[JCBrickston]

Honestly, man. There is no set of rules out there for just being you. Everyone is different. And that being said, everyone is going to eventually draw someone to them depending on their unique personality and traits. However, I have noticed over time that there are several common things that do come into play. In most cases, a girl needs to be able to respect the guy. I've never really met too many gals that like a guy who is unsure of himself or won't stand up for himself. How do I know this? Because that used to be me when I was a good bit younger. I was insecure and running about like a chicken with my head cut off. And it wasn't a very good way to inspire a girl to stick around when I myself had problems believing in me. Being confident is a huge plus.


There's already some good advice listed above, and it really depends on the type of girl you're looking for. I like girls who have a good sense of humor, are a bit obnoxious like me, but who also like the fact that I'm the man in the relationship, so they appreciate when I do something like open a door for them, help them over a puddle, or put myself into a dangerous situation for them. I enjoy doing things like that because I don't view chivalry as being dead, and I was raised to respect and protect women. It's just who I am. So, that being said, if I found a girl who saw those things as a turnoff, I wouldn't bother in pursuing her relationship-wise. Just out of respect for both of our time. I wouldn't want to waste hers, and wouldn't want her to waste mine. So again, it really all depends on the type of gal you're interested in. Be the man you should be for her. But don't do it for the wrong reasons, or to seduce her. Do it because you care about her. And please, by all means, don't feel rushed. Those lead to the biggest mistakes. Take your time. Finding someone right for you is completely worth the wait. I'm gonna be 27 in two months now, and I'm not in a relationship, but I have also matured a good bit since I was younger. I view my time alone as a way to work on myself, and know that in due time I'll come across the right woman.


Peace!


But that's enough being serious for me for one day. Time for the good advice that helps no one:

• Dress like a samurai
  
• Learn the Force. Don't be afraid of the dark side. Girls sometimes like a Sith lord more than a Luke Skywalker. It depends on her.
  
• If you live in a cardboard box, be sure to build her her own cardboard house. Show her that you care.
  
• Master the art of ninja
  
• Power level to awesomeness
  
• Walk around like a boss
  
• Eat a bagel like a boss
  
• Buy a castle, but choose to live in a hut instead because you're that cool
  
• Attack villains and rapscallions in the name of justice
  
• And give her 100% reason to remember the name!