The Lord of Whackery
- Jun 22, 2017
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Hey.....Sometimes that's just the way the cookie crumbles
I dont want clash... I just feel like I have to defend myself against you constantly. You missquote and twist my words, so I have to explain that Ibsaid things differently. Dont say you do it on purpose, but you do it.
If you think what I say is wrong, even though I often include my scources (and yes, they are often youtube videos, but just as often they are trusted scources like wikipedia, universities, etc) then proof me wrong before you assume I am wrong.
If you can convince me with anything other than your personal conclusion, that what I say is in fact wrong, then I would accept that. I would even find that interesting.
But if you just say what I found is wrong, because you dont trust experts, then yes, that is a flaw. There is no defense against that.
I want to stop arguing all the time. If you really think I am the one starting it, and I think you do, then lets just not argue.
Truly, it is fine to disagree. But you just said you assume everyone talks "out of their butt", then that is not a good reason to come tell everyone (at lwast me) wrong all the time.
Maybe they didnt realizing they were doing it. But this is kind of how I feel like. In every post I make, you are there till things blow up.
This is kind of why I am on defense all the time. Because this always only happens in my topics. In nearly every topic I make. So when I see you show up, I instantly feel like things go out of control, and then they do.
If you truly are not pre-assumed I am wrong, to start an argument, then that is my mistake. Just feels like whatever I say, you are there to say it is not so.
Lets both try to understand each other better before we assume the other is just wrong or assume the other is picking a fight.
And one last thing I want to say... There is no arguing opinion. Opinions can be shared, but but not argued, because opinions are not facts. What someone knows and what someone believes in the difference between what can be true/false or not.
So I want to propose a peace: you wont come to my topics to just tell me wrong, based on personal opinion, and I wont jump on my defense as soon as you do show up in my topics.
Dont get me wrong, if you have actuall arguments, to the things I actually said, (so no missquoting, or cropping quotes to change its meaning) then I am truly open fordiscussion.
This is completely not related to this actual topic btw. This came up because you said everyone talk out of their butt, even experts. That part made me feel like that is why we clash.
Please dont see this as an attack. I nwarly try to explain why I think we clash.
If you have a reason why you think I want to clash, feel free to tell me, so I can keep that in mind as well.
Can we do that?
After this I'll be back on topic, and you're welcome to stay. Just hope we can both discuss this on a mature level.
so, what do you say? End if the clash?
You are right. Sorry. I hope above Post would solve this once and for all.
I have to add in my opinion here. I think this whole thread is stupid.