Also whenever you use a scarcely documented (hence the "dark ages") time period as a justification for "realistic" sexism, remember that history was mostly written by men with a vested interest on denying women any and all relevance.
So what you are saying is... we can't trust documentation that the dark ages were a particularly sexist period of history because the people in charge who controlled said documentation at the time were sexist? How did this conversation even take this turn, from discussing whether a trope is inherently sexist or not to arguing whether sexism is appropriate or not in games? Let's just end the unnecessary polarizing and move on, seriously, we're not even talking in terms of tropes anymore and people are passionately skewing other peoples opinions into a position that they clearly never held to begin with.
A few others I've decided I hate.
Checkpoint starvation: This trope is only a good thing if you don't want people to play your game, because I won't for long when I keep having to start over because I don't have enough time to get from point A to point b before stopping.
Turns Red: Seriously, why do bosses have to get stronger at low hp and oftentimes kill me out of nowhere with completely new moves that I wasn't expecting having fought it for ten minutes without seeing before? Just make the damn thing at full strength from the beginning and let me struggle to beat it the whole way, how is major blood loss and combat exhaustion supposed to translate into more powerful anyway?
One Stat Rule: Whereby you have a particular stat or couple of stats in a game that is so useful it just makes leveling other stats instead redundant and foolish. Why even have stats that are unnecessary?
Suicidal Overconfidence: Seriously though, lv 1 slimes attack lv 1 player, tough fight but player wins. Fast forward 10 hours and the player is back in an old area collecting new things with some skill or item he got. Another lv 1 slime sees the party of lv 47 characters and thinks "I'll just jump out and waste 20 seconds of their time, then my buddies will do likewise a couple of minutes later, slimey suicide pact ftl!" Save a slime, turn off overleveled encounters.